I know that my friend deleted me from her MSn contact list,but haven't blocked me.
I deleted and blocked her,so I cant unblock bcos in 'privacy' i don't see her name in block list.
If I will try to add her will she see the 'invitation'?
Or if I don't unblock her and don't add her but she adds me will I see her invitation?
Thats really important!
Thanks in advance

Hey there!!

No invitation will appear so far,

you have to add her, so she will appear in ur list! if u can't find her because the nickname, click in contact > manage contact > view contact by email address, then u will be able to find her easily.

Now u will have to unblock her, she wont see u on her list because she has deleted u, but u can and u can talk to her.

so she will have to add u again.

and eveything will be ok

Regards

Thank you!
But the thing is,I know her email address,and I don't want her to know that I added her.
Will she still see my invitation if I add her?

Ok so at the moment lets say your  Name is:Friend X

Her list (person who deleted you but didnt block)
Friend 1
Friend 2
Friend 3

Your list
Friend 1
Friend 2
Friend 3

if you blocked her and deleted her and re add she will NOT get an invite instead your list will look like

Friend 1
Friend 2
Friend 3
Friend 4 (Blocked)

if she adds you back you will not get an invite.

Her list will be

Friend 1
Friend 2
Friend 3
Friend X(Offline)(because U blocked her)

So in the end either way you or her will not get an invite.

First of all, some replies to the others:

I'm not going deeper into both replies other then saying they are wrong. It already takes much time to explain, in the correct way, the whole sequence of events and what can happen or what not, without the need to also correct wrong support-posts.

It is great that people want to help, but try to do it in a proper way without giving people the wrong information. The time (and posts!) it takes to correct that and to clear up confussion could well have been used to help other people.

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zaher1988, please, if you wanna help, post correct and complete information!!! This is the 654651645th time I ask/say this and I'm not the only one who has said this before. If you wanna help, do it properly, otherwise don't. Please take a note/hint from your reputation comments.   

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Originally posted by zaher1988
Now u will have to unblock her, she wont see u on her list because she has deleted u, but u can and u can talk to her.

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• Rule 1: If you delete a person from your contact list without also choosing the option to block the contact, he/she will still be in your allow list.
  
  
• Rule 2: If you delete a person from your contact list and also choose the option to block the contact, he/she will still be in your block list.

• Rule 3: It is only when both parties have deleted eachother from the contact list and from the allow list or block list, that there will be no trace left of the contact in the list from the person who has performed the deletion as last one.
  
  
• Rule 4: Invitations are only send to the contact when that contact hasn't you in his/hers lists. This means if you still appear in his/her allow list, block list and/or contact list, he/she will not get the "contact has added you" popup.

• If somebody deletes you from his/her contact list before you have deleted them from your lists, you will remain in his/her allow list or block list (depending on if he/she also selected "block the contact also" when deleting) because you would still have him/her on your lists (see rule 3). Re-adding that contact will not give an invitation popup (see rule 4).
  
  If you do want the contact to get a invitation popup again, you first need to delete the contact from your allow list or block list by going to Tools > Options > Privacy > Allow List/Block List > Right click on the contact > Delete. Thus note that this "delete" is not the same as the "delete" option when you right click the contact in the contact list.
  
  
• If somebody deletes you from his/her contact list after you have deleted them from your list, you will not be in his/her lists anymore (see rule 3). Re-adding that contact will give the contact the "contact has added you" popup (see rule 4).

1. You are both on eachothers contact list, allow list and reverse list.
   
   
2. She deletes you from her contact list without blocking you (<= you can not know for sure if she has blocked you!)
   - You still have her on your contact list and allow list, but not in the reverse list anymore.
   - She still has you in her allow list (see rule 3) and reverse list, but not in her contact list anymore.
   
   
3. You delete her and also choose the option to block her.
   - You have her in your block list, but also not in the contact list anymore.
   - She still has you in her allow list (see rule 3), but not in her reverse list anymore.

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Originally posted by SonicSam
Ok so at the moment lets say your  Name is:Friend X

Her list (person who deleted you but didnt block)
Friend 1
Friend 2
Friend 3

Your list
Friend 1
Friend 2
Friend 3

if you blocked her and deleted her and re add she will NOT get an invite instead your list will look like

Friend 1
Friend 2
Friend 3
Friend 4 (Blocked)

if she adds you back you will not get an invite.

Her list will be

Friend 1
Friend 2
Friend 3
Friend X(Offline)(because U blocked her)

So in the end either way you or her will not get an invite.

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Originally posted by SonicSam
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Thank you!!!That helped

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Originally posted by CookieRevised
That doesn't help you at all and teaches you completely wrong info...

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Originally posted by CookieRevised

[*]Rule 2: If you delete a person from your contact list and also choose the option to block the contact, he/she will still be in your block list.[/list]This goes also vice versa. Thus: you can't delete a contact also from the allow list or block list because the contact has still you on one of his/her lists!

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Rule 4: Invitations are only send to the contact when that contact hasn't you in his/hers lists. This means if you still appear in his/her allow list, block list and/or contact list, he/she will not get the "contact has added you" popup.

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Originally posted by CookieRevised

[*]Rule 2: If you delete a person from your contact list and also choose the option to block the contact, he/she will still be in your block list.

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She has me on her allow list, but when I deleted and blocked her she dissapeared from all my lists!Strange...

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