Hi ive been getting this annoyng n recurring problem with msn n dont know why its happening. It has to do with the popup "He/she wants to add u on contact list etc" and this happens even though they are already on my list? Is there something wrong with my comp? or its just msn live

happened to a lot of people, including myself.

How I fixed (eventually)

•Uninstalled Messenger
•Uninstall Plus and/or any other addons
•Deleted the Messenger Cache Files*
•Restart Computer
•Reinstall Messenger, Then Plus

*View your complete folder list

1. On the taskbar, right-click Start, and then select Explore.
2. Click on Tools, and then select Folder Options.
3. In the Folder Options window, click the View tab.
4. In the Advanced Settings list, select Show hidden files and folders, make sure Hide extensions for known file types is not selected, and then click OK.
5. In the Windows Explorer window, click View, select Explorer Bar, and then verify that Folders is checked.

Delete your Contacts cache folder
After changing your Windows Explorer settings:

1. On the taskbar, right-click Start, and then select Explore.
2. In the folder list on the left-hand pane, navigate to the folder C:\Documents and Settings\Your Windows logon name\Contacts\Your Messenger email address.
3. Delete all of the files within the folder Your Messenger email address.
4. In the folder list on the left-hand pane, navigate to the folder C:\Documents and Settings\Your Windows logon name\Local Settings\Application Data\Microsoft\Windows Live Contacts\Your Messenger email address.
5. In the Your Messenger email address folder, delete the real and shadow folders.
6. Close Windows Explorer and try to sign in to Messenger again.