i know this is almost definatly posible to do but i dont have a good enough sever to run this myself...

similar to remote desktop you can control your msn by another computer...

but this way you have a web page with commands you can tell msn to complete and the script checks for new commands every x seconds and replys to the web server with information of what messages etc...

if anyone can make it i will be ammazed

Just use remote desktop assistance or logmein can do all that stuff

i want an alternative way tho... remote desktop i dont trust
its just makes it harder to hack than remote desktop

There's a script that can do this already. It uses text commands to execute actions remotely.
http://www.msgpluslive.net/scripts/view/149-PlusRemote/

Then just use a web messenger with a second account.