Hey ppl!

I have this new windows live messenger 2011 (hate it though ) ...
I have problem that sometimes half of my messages don't get to other person and I don't sometimes receive messages so people have to copy paste them..it's quite frustrating, cuz I checked everything, reinstalling,options, not being on appear offline, everything they suggest.....

Is there a way to get messages I didn't receive, I know it's stupid question, but some of them might be really important and I'm so so angry and desperate....

How long are the posts? Are they over the 411 word limit? (I think it's 411, but I could be wrong). One thing I have noticed is if one of the contacts (you or your friend) go offline for any reason, even if it's just for a second, then your messages will be undelivered.