Shoutbox

you like way smarter than me cookie so i'll take your word for it but if you used packet sniffing to pick up when the nudge was sent couldn't it be told something else like

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var trynudge
var nudged  // sets the value of the packet to here

sniffed packet = nudged

when  sniffedpacket == nudged
do
msgbox "  "  /to print nothing or set a value to prevent nudging

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quiet possibally won't work or you guys would have thought of it all ready.

if you don't want your contact to nudge you but you can nudge them just appear off line and you can nudge them but the other way around it says contact appears to be offline

Yes you could do some action when a nudge is recieved, but with packet sniffing you can not dismiss or change packets. The packets will still be handled by Messenger and thus Messenger will still shake the convo window and all.

If you don't want to shake your window and make a sound and all that (because it isn't that easy to exactly 100% simulate a decent nudge with a script), but you want a toast to popup or something, it would be much easier because then you could simply globally disable nudging by patching Messenger.

But you can not just disable Messenger from shaking the window and all when it recieves a nudge without patching Messenger. And patching will mean it will be disabled for all contacts.

With a proxy you can pick out individual packets for specific contacts and then dismiss those packets so messenger wont recieve them for those specific contacts.