hello

welcome to the forums, to make your name with a background colour try using this:
type /nick in a conversation window> hold ctrl and hit k and add > , < a comma

and the choose your colour from the box. (it'll stay there as you press the comma too) then choose the number of colour( anumber will appear thats why...) and then type your nick name out and press enter and there, you have a pretty lookin' nick

and you can also ad colour letters again too
/nick (ctrl k),(numbercolour) nickname
Edit: thanks matty. but i dont see ctrl+ anywhere

wow confusion.