Shoutbox

hm. this is confusing...so,
1. do you have the green msn icon where the block button usually is when he opened a conversation?
2. did you set a come back message like MC ask?
3. do you have stuffpluf ng installed so it tells you when someone has opened the conversation? If you do, you could have clicked that toast (the pop up thing) thinking it said "so and so says: yayayay"