i changed back to the default skin on wlm and restarted and then i double clicked on the icon it didnt open,
then i right clicked it and tryed to open it,
it worked but the skin was not the default skin but chunks out of my contact list showing on the chat etc...
and i restarted again to see if that would fix it and all i got was the previous skin (duck! skin) i dunno y or how but i cant get the messenger back to its original state but i can get on other skins