I figured out why it takes so long for everything to load and find my wireless connection. I am using windows xp and I have messenger 3.20 that's why. I know this because as soon as I deleted messenger plus I am able to get online right away..
Messenger Plus! has nothing todo with slowing down your connection to the net...
Do you have any plugins installed? Or addons for Messenger? Some plugins are known to cause slowdowns and this can indirectly result in the slowness of finding the wireless connection. Especially if you're automaticly starting up Messenger when you bootup Windows...
Messenger Plus! can't be responsible for your wireless connection problems. I guess the sponsor could be though... try to install the program withoutit and see if it solves the problem