problem is that the "on list" factor can not be retreived with the MessengerAPI library, and thus it should be retreived using the ugly way, which is enumerating all the listbox objects in that "see who has added me to his/her contact list" button.
I'd like to add this column, I even tried once, but I didn't succeed. The cached data saved by Messenger in the registry is not reliable and as I don't want to sniff the protocol, I didn't find an alternative. If you've got one, let me know .
I think the MSN plugin for Miranda does somthing actually close, but I don't know if it really works,(see last column of screenshot) for more information about the plugin and his creator can be found HERE (Just in case you want to contact with him =)
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