Shoutbox

obsessed is how we write it..
back to ur issue I wouldn't know.. a bell rings in my head saying u should probably make it clear to her.. that u dont like her more than u like a friend.. as painful as this sound, I think honesty is the best thing.. be straight with her, be careful not to hurt her, but be sure she understands that yes u r her friend and will always be there for her, but that's it.. not more..

sorry if I cant help more than that..

i know this may come rude and a little childish but i cant help myself really do you have pictures, just to see how does she look like [/offtopic]

ok so if you dont want to live on like this just be honest with her, take a walk and tell her how you feel or something, now what you're doing is just playing with her in a way, she doesnt know how you feel and she doesnt want to move on either because she doesnt know what you think.

What im saying is go to this thing with her, take a private walk/talk and tell her how you feel.

ok offtopic here is a pidture of her she is the one on the.....(drums..) left i talk to her frien too(right) and she has told me that she is really exited about going with me to that dance, because many of her friends know and they all think that i am super hot and all of them want to go to taht dance so they can see me i dunno wat to do

You may aswell go out and have a good time, regardless if you only like her as a friend. Simply going to a dance with her won't change anything. Although, if she tries anything, then it might become awkward, so I would try your hardest not to lead her on in anyway, you might give her the wrong impressions then she might try something...

Or of course, you could always give her the "our friendship means a lot to us, and I wouldn't want to ruin it..." chat? That always seems to make things a whole lot better after an awkward situation, or before an awkward situation has even arose...

Just make sure she knows how you feel about the whole "situation" before the dance, would be the best...

tell her straight up how it is.

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Originally posted by jow cool
tell her straight up how it is.

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yes, i said once it and i'll say it again, tell_her_how_it_is

If she's eighteen too, I highly doubt she understands the whole concept of a 'relationship' yet.

You shouldnt go with her.. or before going you should have a long coonversation with her..

Otherwise you will give her hopes and thats not good...

She could turn obssessive about you and make your life a hell.. lol

To: ShawnZ

dude, people live together when they are 14-..
and sexlife begins much sooner too.

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Originally posted by mTimmo
To: ShawnZ

dude, people live together when they are 14-..
and sexlife begins much sooner too.

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But that doesnt mean they knows anything about a real relationship.

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Originally posted by guanako
she even wants me to go with her this weekend to help her choose a dress

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Thats doesnt really mean anything at all, Ive gone with lots of friends to pick out their dresses


Anyhow, if you enjoy having a friendship with her, go and just have some fun.