Shoutbox

My family is like this, my dad isn't much of a dad at all. 
He's never around, doesn't spend time with me and my mom at all, hell,
my parents don't even sleep in the same bed, or room.  My parents
broke up for about a year or two then got back together.  My dad
recently quit drinking, he started again, but he doesn't go out and
party anymore.  And they get in these fights alot.

The question is, are people pulling him down to leave?  If no one
is and you want him to stay, make him understand that.  I don't
understand why people in arguements can't settle things out, yelling
isn't going to change anything.