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Originally posted by s7a5
One of the technique I use, I get around 500-1000$ form ATM b4 I go to a date, and put my money (with a money clip) on the side of the table along with my cell phone. So as we eat, I observe how many time she is looking on the money, and sometimes I remark that they are trying to count how much money is in there. Well, its just a lil test to see if she is gready or not. Usually when it happens to me I dont date her ever again...

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horrable method, IMO:
a. somebody with quick fingers could walk off with it
b. it would still probualy draw their attention because thats alot of money and its more curiousity as to why would would carry that around and show it off? are you trying to bost? show her you have lost of money
c. if the waitors see it, the will think "that guys loaded, he'll leave big tips or spend lots" so you'll be bothered all night

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Originally posted by John Anderton
A) Asking randomers online is sick
B) If you go for looks in a girl then my lord you are about to get some serious surprises


Decide yourself or ask close friends who know you and/or her. If you dont have friends to ask, im sorry, but you should be out there getting close friends rather than sitting online

Sorry if my views seem dodgy but i just dont like people asking random people online about such stuff. Someone is fit to comment only if he/she knows you and/or her personally, knows the current "situation" etc.

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Sorry to bring it up but I completely disagree

A) See the thing is when you ask other people's advices online or in person you probably will get their expertise. It doesn't matter on the situation and personality of the person. Guys usually try to "lick girls ass" and think that she is gonna like them. Don't act like a wussbag and never give a girl EXACTLY what she wants.

B) Do you want to end up being with ugly girl then??? Not me
I love surprises, they are fun, especially when you know how to deal with them. Frankly, nothing surprises me anymore because I'm prepared for anything. You just how to take things easy. When she wants you to feel shit, you usually become defensive and start arguing. WRONG!!! You have to take it easy and enjoy everything she does to keep you off control by acting unaffected to everything she throws at you.

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Originally posted by NiteMare

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Originally posted by s7a5
One of the technique I use, I get around 500-1000$ form ATM b4 I go to a date, and put my money (with a money clip) on the side of the table along with my cell phone. So as we eat, I observe how many time she is looking on the money, and sometimes I remark that they are trying to count how much money is in there. Well, its just a lil test to see if she is gready or not. Usually when it happens to me I dont date her ever again...

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horrable method, IMO:
a. somebody with quick fingers could walk off with it
b. it would still probualy draw their attention because thats alot of money and its more curiousity as to why would would carry that around and show it off? are you trying to bost? show her you have lost of money
c. if the waitors see it, the will think "that guys loaded, he'll leave big tips or spend lots" so you'll be bothered all night

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Well, when I go out on a date I don;t go to McDonalds type restaurants. I prefer to leave my wallet at home and keep my cash and cards in my pocket. Sure it will draw their attention, but starring at it constantly is not a usual type of reaction you would expect from a girl. Yes in fact, when waitress sees lots of cash sitting on the table they try to serve you better because they expect high tips, and you know what, I like having a great service... dont u?

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Originally posted by s7a5
B) Do you want to end up being with ugly girl then??? Not me

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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder... someone who may seem average to you can turn into the best looking person in the world (to you) if you fall in love with them. The chances you'll fall in love with someone and think they're ugly and question yourself "why am I with someone so ugly?" is very small.

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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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ye i know this say...

I completely agree with u and I didn't mean that an average looking girl is not a right choice. As a matter of fact, I even like them more because girls who try to look very beatiful and super-dupper sexy by using make-up products and wearing sexy cloth tell me: "Hey, look at me, my "looks" is all I've got !!"
To me, a perfect girl has to appear attractive not only by her looks but by her personality. She must be somewhat mysterious that will continue the attraction grow.

Whats with all the relationship threads.. You either like her or you dont.. Or even if you dont, then you either want to get with her or you dont.. Asking people onine that dont know the girl is a bit stupid.

Good luck whichever way you choose anyways.

If u adore her, then go for it.

Or be a player and go out with her till u find something better...

hehe thats a bit true too ... but anyways thanks people, your input is appreciated

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Originally posted by NiteMare

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Originally posted by traxor
What is with all of the threads about relationships and stuff on the forum lately

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its spring, love is in the air

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I ask myself if that is really true because its hapenning with me..

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If you dont like her and shes hot go on at least you have some fun.

If you dont like her and shes ugly then you are crazy if you are even thinking about doing it.

If you like her whether shes pretty or not..you are a lucky mofo and you will obviusly lose a big chance by not dating her.


See? its really that easy.

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Originally posted by s7a5
She must be somewhat mysterious that will continue the attraction grow.

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Hell yeah..

My friends dont understand why i like this girl because shes not thaat hot.
Shes not ugly either but i find her personality .. wonderful.

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Originally posted by paperless

If you dont like her and shes hot go on at least you have some fun.

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That is REALLY shallow and selfish, I don't know who she is, what's she's like, but I think most decent girls would rather NOT be screwed around with.

But yeah, if you like her, maybe get to know her a little better before you date her, so you can get to know about her personality a bit and that.