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Originally posted by Tasha
That is REALLY shallow and selfish

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That would be terribly shallow and selfish if she wouldnt have fun as well or if i used just for my pelasure, in this case im talking about both having fun.

Sometimes it really is interesting to see guys discuss girls.


Seriously, don't treat others like you wouldn't want to be treated yourself. Going by looks alone is, in all honesty, quite stupid. Looks don't last or will help you through difficult times. Of course you can dump the other person if their looks change, but that says enough about your own personality. And it's not saying a lot of positive things.

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Originally posted by Fanta
Sometimes it really is interesting to see guys discuss girls.


Seriously, don't treat others like you wouldn't want to be treated yourself. Going by looks alone is, in all honesty, quite stupid. Looks don't last or will help you through difficult times. Of course you can dump the other person if their looks change, but that says enough about your own personality. And it's not saying a lot of positive things.

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OMG i said it once and now i have to repeat..

I was talking about a "looks relationship" where BOTH were on just for the looks not just the guy or just the girl...

No doubt the relationship isnt going to last but at least they BOTH have fun for a while.

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Originally posted by s7a5

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Originally posted by NiteMare

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Originally posted by s7a5
One of the technique I use, I get around 500-1000$ form ATM b4 I go to a date, and put my money (with a money clip) on the side of the table along with my cell phone. So as we eat, I observe how many time she is looking on the money, and sometimes I remark that they are trying to count how much money is in there. Well, its just a lil test to see if she is gready or not. Usually when it happens to me I dont date her ever again...

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horrable method, IMO:
a. somebody with quick fingers could walk off with it
b. it would still probualy draw their attention because thats alot of money and its more curiousity as to why would would carry that around and show it off? are you trying to bost? show her you have lost of money
c. if the waitors see it, the will think "that guys loaded, he'll leave big tips or spend lots" so you'll be bothered all night

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Well, when I go out on a date I don;t go to McDonalds type restaurants. I prefer to leave my wallet at home and keep my cash and cards in my pocket. Sure it will draw their attention, but starring at it constantly is not a usual type of reaction you would expect from a girl. Yes in fact, when waitress sees lots of cash sitting on the table they try to serve you better because they expect high tips, and you know what, I like having a great service... dont u?

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errrrrr..
"not a usual type of reaction you would expect from a girl."??

tbh... that's the most rediculus "test" I've heared to 'size up' a girl or to see if they are greedy... of course they are going to stare at it! Everybody would...

Most of the people (not only the girls) would simply think "what a show-off, careless with money, etc..."

Unless you're happy with the stupid naieve blond one who thinks "wow he's loaded I'll jump right at him"

Either your date thinks:
"he has lot a of money, but is a big show-off and careless"
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"he pretends (aka lying) to be loaded and is trying to impress me with money"

I dunno which one is worse, but they both say negative stuff about you and your "technique" and don't tell a thing about a girl being greedy or not.


...sorry

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to quote some people:

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Originally posted by segosa
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...

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Originally posted by GHOST OF DA AGES
If u adore her, then go for it.

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And don't use lame tricks to check a girl out... be yourself (as much as possible).

Paperless.. I'm sorry, but where in my post do I indicate that I was reacting to you and only your post? you make it sound like I annoyed you by giving a general opinion. OPINION. GENERAL. So Im sorry if I offended you in anway way but could you please stop taking a post personal when it's not clearly directed at you?

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Originally posted by Fanta
Paperless.. I'm sorry, but where in my post do I indicate that I was reacting to you and only your post? you make it sound like I annoyed you by giving a general opinion. OPINION. GENERAL. So Im sorry if I offended you in anway way but could you please stop taking a post personal when it's not clearly directed at you?

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You didnt indicate but you replied just after my post with nearly same arguments as tasha which led me to think that i hadnt explain well myself.

If you're asking people you barely know (aka a forum) whether YOU should date the person or not then no.

It's YOUR decision and only YOU can make it....

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Originally posted by paperless

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Originally posted by Fanta
Paperless.. I'm sorry, but where in my post do I indicate that I was reacting to you and only your post? you make it sound like I annoyed you by giving a general opinion. OPINION. GENERAL. So Im sorry if I offended you in anway way but could you please stop taking a post personal when it's not clearly directed at you?

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You didnt indicate but you replied just after my post with nearly same arguments as tasha which led me to think that i hadnt explain well myself.

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Well as you can see, it's quite clear when I reply directly to you

Heh, I would've done the same thread except when everything went well, some SOB asked before me.  So I'm waiting in line, I guess.  =P

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Originally posted by s7a5
Yes in fact, when waitress sees lots of cash sitting on the table they try to serve you better because they expect high tips, and you know what, I like having a great service... dont u?

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yeah but i was at a restraunt once and then guy beside me has something similar to you, he had a think wallet out on the table, so when he paid in cash tehy waiters too a 35% on the bill, and when he only left a 10%, they took there tip out first then said he didn't pay enough for his dinner and wouldn't let him leave