If u have lost the info bar, that notifies you that the person is offline, away, busy, etc.. I reccomend you re-open your mess-patch and edit your current settings...
uncheck "yellow info bar" under the "conversation window options"
Pretty Straight Forward:
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Oh and look under Aaron on your contact list, stephen...You will find me there
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* Three6Mafia bes tricksy