well, my friend has said that he's bought cds from abroad before and that sometimes he can be charged a maximum of 10$ to get it out of customs.
In a way, I've now been put off offering items worldwide on eBay because of this, although I know that not all customs are like this. I thought if I could at least crack Canada (which many eBayers say is the hardest to crack) then the world would basically be my oyster. *sigh*
Oh well, there's nothing else for it then. I'll just have to keep trying