Ok, I was not sure where to post this, so i just simply chose the most obvious place aside from the skinning forum...
I decided to install Willz Infuscus skin, i fiddled around in the options panel of the skin and had a look around, i then decided to use the draw thing that he had and hide the formatting and top toolbars. I then decided to change my skin and it stuffed up, as the formatting and top toolbars had now vanished, and now i have used the messenger plus live re-install, and repair options and this is what my messenger looks like, WITHOUT patches.
Ignore bad screenshot quality, cudnt be bothered makin it look good.