i'm confused. my friend said he deleted (but not blocked) me a couple days ago. last night he messaged me while i was signed off. when i went to tools - options - privacy - "see who has added you to their contact list"... his name wasn't listed as having added me. doesn't this normally mean the person has not only deleted you but also blocked you?
yeah, well, i thought he blocked me, and it still doesn't have his name listed as having added me to his list... but he's on now and i can tell, and i even have the ability to IM him (like the screen isn't gray and i'm not getting a message back saying it didn't go through or whatever). he's always had a crappy connection and his messenger keeps signing off and on, so whether he's getting my IMs, i don't know. he hasn't said anything back. so what's going on? if he's blocked me i wouldn't even be able to send IMs, right? and even if he just deleted me.... then how come i can see he's online?