Patchou,
you are obviously an extremely intelligent guy. Now, not always being smart comes with emotional maturity or intelligence. But you will see that being a bright fellow and having a sharp mind will help you getting through this heartbreak. Keep up the good work, and maintain your self esteem and the kind heart! Chin up!
And thank you for such a wonderful software.
P.S. Have you thought about developing skins for MSN messenger?