If I may mingle in the discussion
Many people ARE desperate because of the many serverload messages. I'm going to kick some but here I think, but since mods/admins can always access the forum, even with a serverload, you can't imagine how annoying this realy is!!!!!!
I (and some other very regulars) where on the point to leave the forums in all honesty, just because it is/was a living hell in a matter of speaking. You couldn't help anyone out, you see some occasional reply with wrong info, you wanna reply, you can't, etc... etc... You couldn't do a single thing (reporting spam) because *boom* serverload, .....
PS: But I've read that the new server is almost there, so... I'll patiently wait
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