go there again when she is waitressing, and if she still is into you, she will want to serve you
tips :
always ask her questions
do not use bad body language, body language means more then looks or personality becuase your body language subconsciencely gives the other person the best impression of you.
that is a reason why those 3 minute dates work
good body language:
- make sure there are no barriers between you and her (your arms crossed etc)
- Eye contact – look at the person the majority of the time., except when you are about to laugh, then cover your face (but make sure she can see your smile from under your hands. make sure u dont do this for longer then say 3 seconds. and never twice. this gives her the impression that your slitely imbarressed and very into her.
- always relax your speach, where blurrey speach may make her smile, it also makes her think that your unconfortable around her.
be slow, relaxed, use educated words (i doubt when she drops you coffee mug i think she would rather you not shout ' IMFAO ' out .
- Keep still – don't fidget, rock back and forth, play with hair or clothes. but it can be good if she plays with her hair and keeps eye contact with you....but if she dont keep eye contact shes bored
- Personal space – it is hard to talk when you are 10 feet apart, but you do not want to be 6 inches apart either. Generally, 2-3 feet is a comfortable distance
- Posture – sitting up straight or even leaning toward her lets her know you are interested. When you slouch, it is not showing good manners and it tells her that you are more interested in relaxing or maybe falling asleep than listening to her.
but it realy all depends on your mental state
if u like her, go see her, engage in convosation
becuase she might be turned off that you didnt return the flirting
who knows.
good luck
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