Everything is back to normal when I uninstall Plus. I did check in the registry that 'show not minimized' in Plus options is not checked. The sound-settings are alright cause as I said, this is happening only with first message from someone, not when the convo-window is already open.
Edit: got it fixed finally with TweakUI - had to uncheck "prevent applications from stealing focus".
This post was edited on 04-16-2005 at 11:48 AM by trini.
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