Shoutbox

well, first of all I want to apologize myself because the thing I'm looking for, has probably been asked a million times and perhaps it isn't worth a new thread.

but here's my problem: I'm looking for a plug-in,... that can tell you which people in your msn clicks on your username without saying something...

I'll be more specific: Imagine that I'm online and my username is "motje82", a girl has signed in and want to take to me but well she's shy (even on msn) and she just only clicks on my username...ICould  find a plug in that can tell me that that girl clicks on my name without saying something

Does such a plug-in exist and if so, what is it called and where can i download it???

thanks