actually dreamweaver ftp is really easy to setup
Site > Manage Sites
click new > site
and just follow through the steps until you get to this window
hostname is the ftp url (e.g ftp.yourdomain.com)
folder should just be blank i think
login is your username
password is your password
then just test your connection and it should work fine
to upload, open the files panel and it should have a dropdown box with your site on it and another dropdown box with local view and remote view
switch to local view and it should list all the files in the folder for the site you made. just right click them and click put to upload the file
not sure why any of you think its a pain to set up tbh