let's say you want to link to the word "eee.e" which is on
http://www.tashaj.info/?page_id=44.
On
http://www.tashaj.info/?page_id=44 you put <a name="whatever">eee.e</a>
An then you put <a href="http://www.tashaj.info/?page_id=44#whatever">This links to eee.e</a> on the page you are linking from.
Or for your first example, on page A you put <a href="url_for_page_2
#anchor">Link 1</a>
and on page B you put <a name="anchor">word_where_link_1_should_link_to</a>
Take a look at
A Beginner's Guide to HTML - Links to Specific Sections (tip: bookmark it, it's quite useful

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Hope this was understandable
Yup, you got it 