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Originally posted by lp15
it's not the best thing im afraid
If it has hurt you, your feeling for it either overpowers your hate (and therefore you don't want to lose it and have no reason to) or your hate overpowers your feeling (which will help you realize you need to lose it)
If you know you need to lose it but have too much feeling for it still, then you're on the right track, you just need to try as hard as you can to overcome your feelings (maybe smoking was a bad example, but you see my idea)
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