no, sorry, to my knowledge there is no way to find this out apart from asking them or having them on webcam, sorry.
As for A-patch, Crimcz means that if you have A-patch installed you can set it to show your status as idle in a period of say 20 inactive mins...
(i think so anyway, sorry if im wrong but im 95% sure this info is correct!)
contact active - by ozaki on 04-12-2006 at 05:43 PM RE: contact active - by ozaki on 04-12-2006 at 05:48 PM RE: contact active - by stoshrocket on 04-12-2006 at 05:56 PM RE: contact active - by NiteMare on 04-12-2006 at 06:04 PM RE: contact active - by artfuldodga on 04-13-2006 at 08:47 PM
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