Um.....
I guess if anyone does a search for 'missing received files folder' AND they ALSO just HAPPEN to need to know about 'connection issues, out of date plus contact details, and caches' that keep their contact details, now they'll have a nice easy link from one subject to those entirely different ones too. THANKS! Didn't need the link, but VERY kind of you to post it?!!!
P.S. I also mentioned WHY people were losing contacts in my original post...I know its long-winded.... but hey, different strokes an' all that...