Shoutbox

you like way smarter than me cookie so i'll take your word for it but if you used packet sniffing to pick up when the nudge was sent couldn't it be told something else like

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var trynudge
var nudged  // sets the value of the packet to here

sniffed packet = nudged

when  sniffedpacket == nudged
do
msgbox "  "  /to print nothing or set a value to prevent nudging

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quiet possibally won't work or you guys would have thought of it all ready.

if you don't want your contact to nudge you but you can nudge them just appear off line and you can nudge them but the other way around it says contact appears to be offline