I uninstalled Windows Live Messenger, and the Sign-In Assistant before, if that's what you mean....
OMGWTF... It's suddenly working. All i've done is run Windows Update, uninstalled EVERYTHING to do with WLM like you said -again-, and restarted my computer... I don't understand but i'm not complaining
Thankyou felu for your suggestions and how quickly you replied
-callmegarfield