Check if you have a nickname set for the contact. Right click on his name in the contact list.
If "Edit nickname" is in the menu, then you have set a nickname for him. Press "Edit nickname" and then clear the textbox and press Enter.
Otherwise you will see "Add a nickname" in the menu. If you see this, then you don't have a nickname set for him and this is not the cause of the problem.
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