1) you need to delete them from your contact list (you've already done this)
2) they need to delete you from their contact list
3) you can now remove them from your allow list
4) they can now remove you from their allow list
Note that the syncronization between your lists and your contacts' lists can take a couple of seconds and may even require you to log out and back in.
This post was edited on 06-25-2007 at 10:13 AM by CookieRevised.
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