Well, if I get it right, the WLM's icon on taskbar (that for me is the icon near the clock) automaticly changes depending of the status.... The buddy goes grey when as offline; goes green as online; goes green with a clock when away, idle, lunch or be right back and goes green with the red circle when busy or in a call....
There isn't an opition to enable/disable this...
Maybe I'm missing something???