O.P. RE: Cannot delete myself from reverse list
I've did it! I'll explain. When someone deletes you from their contact list they disappear from your reverse list. However the problem was that after I've accidentally invited myself on Live Spaces, I got the message that I have added myself but it did not add me to my contact list even if I checked the add to contact list box.
Here is the solution. Using Noroom's ListManager or Miranda IM, add yourself to your contact list. You will always appear as offline to yourself. Now start Live Messenger and remove yourself. Violà!
It seems that when you remove someone, Messenger signals the server to remove you from that person's reverse list. Therefore the reverse list is an actual list so I don't know why these 3rd party programs can't maintain them.
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