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Originally posted by igores
It may not be the place to post this [snipped]
Indeed, this is a pure Messenger question and not really related to Messenger Plus! (although you can see this too in Messenger Plus!), so it should have been posted in MSN/Windows (Live) Messenger. 
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Originally posted by igores
How can I know if someone who I added some time ago, added me to his list, since I can see his ID and whatever he writes or changes regarding his status.
Since you can see his status and all, he has you in his 'Allow List'.
But to know of he has also added you to his 'Contact List'
you need to check your 'Reverse List'.
In Messenger you have several lists:
- the
Contact list, which shows all the contacts you have added
Accessed by opening the main window of Messenger
- the
Allow list, which shows all the contacts which can contact you and see your status
Accessed by going to main menu > Tools > Options > Privacy
- the
Block list, which shows all the contacts which you do not want to see your status nor contact you
Accessed by going to main menu > Tools > Options > Privacy
- the
Reverse list, which shows all the contacts who have added you to their contact list.
Accessed by going to main menu > Tools > Options > Privacy > Who has added you
Note: A combination of all these lists can also be seen in Messenger Plus! by going to main menu > Plus! > Contact List Clean-Up.
In the last column ("Has You") of that dialog you'll see if someone has added you or not.
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