Ok thanks! You mean right clicking on the name in my contact list so that his contact information (card) comes up and you can see it on the bottom? I've tried this and it says that I'm on his list...it's strange:/
This happened a few days ago that's why I'm suspicious...do you think it's possible he might perhaps "combine" the 2 different e-mails (one for work and private)? Now I can only see when he's online at work... perhaps I'm only on his list for this account?
He might also have switched to MSN Pecan recently...
Sorry for all confusing questions
