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Originally posted by MeEtc
well you can block all people from messaging you who are not on your contact list
Tools > Options > check "only people on my allow list can see my status and send me messages"
When someone adds you on his/her contact list (and he's/she's not on yours), will you get a notice that someone has added you and ask you whether you want to add him/her? Once you enable the only allow users on your contact list to see status and send you messages, the box to be informed about being added turns grey. Does that mean it's disabled?
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