Shoutbox

I downloaded the latest version of Windows Live Messenger today, despite having "Allow others to see my webcam" unchecked, it's still showing people.

I know it always shows the fact that you have a webcam, until your own display picture, but others have been inviting me to view webcam. It's built in, I can just say no.. Surely the whole point of being able to hide it is so that you're not constantly being asked to go on?

Any suggestions?