Shoutbox

i did a test.did it with the same person

my friend add me; "You are in this contact's list"

i use another msn account and add him;  "You are not in this contact's list".


likewise;
he added me first and he told me;  "You are not in this contact's list".

then i use the other msn account i add him;  "You are in this contact's list"


you get it now?
if you add someone; "You are not in this contact's list".
but if someone add you; "You are in this contact's list"

the option "only people on my allow list can see my status and send me messages" is both enabled.