So, if I tell her to check the same thing on HER computer it should be correct? It will say she is in my list?
...Now it says +5/+10... and we chatted today
Blame Microsoft. This issue is known for a couple of months but Microsoft doesn't fix it. As CookieRevised said above, Messenger Plus! reads that information from Messenger's own reverse list.
Is that also related to the way people can check if someone deleted them by right-clicking on the contacts in the Allow list (Privacy options) and seeing if the Delete option is click-able, on normal WLMs' ?
Because now I logged in to HER msn account again, and in the Allow list when i right click on MYSELF the Delete option is enabled/click-able while I did NOT delete her.
Thanks for the reply.