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Originally posted by maya_b
Hi, my problem is kind of opposite to this one. Three people who I deleted and they did delete me (I know because we had fight and they told me) are showing as they did not delete. I can't remove them under privacy options as delete is grayed out.
So my question is - is there anything out there like was Noroom contact list manager (it's not working more) that will let me clean up my list and get rid of those three people there?

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Your problem stems from the same thing.  They show as not having deleted you because the information isn't updating, it doesn't matter which way around it is, the information won't update.

I'm not entirely sure of the criteria for "Delete" being greyed out, I can't seem to find a pattern in mine, but if you've blocked and deleted them then it doesn't really matter what it says on the Privacy page, they won't be able to contact you or see your status.

Contact List Cleanup will not work though, it won't reliably show you if people on your list have deleted you, or if they've added you if the changes were in the last few months