danny...no they're just completely gone now from both lists....I just don't know how that could have happened. I wanted to keep them on allow so they cud msg me in the future if they wanted...but now I guess there's no chance of that ever since they've gone from both lists
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If I readd them it'll probably send them a notification...oh well I guess maybe it was some kind of weird divine intervention and I was destined never to talk to this person again