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hello everyone! well where can i start...friday the 13th for me was indeed what the myth says it to be, nothing but bad luck! I am currently working a 9-5 job which i like but i feel bored and confused about whether i want to do something else, or just not work in general, lol...like that is possible! so basically, i have been absorbed with having a baby, my own baby, with someone i know and want to be with. Evidently, he doesnt have a clue that i want to have a baby and i'm sure if he knew, he would run for the hills, the sea and maybe the end of the world if he could find it (Boing ) so getting straight to the point...does one have a baby without him knowing, or slowly live my boring, meaningless life before i do something even more outrageously stupid?!

BTW i don't want any reasons about how unfair it is to put a man through this...bla bla bla...no one was saying it was unfair when i was cheated on and hurt by other men, so im doing what I want now...not anyone else!

lol

glad this could make you laugh

So you basically want to have a baby without your boyfriend knowing? This is most likely a troll but ill answer anyway.

1. Your boyfriend will find out 2. It's the stupidest idea ever, do you have no morals?

If you were my gf and you secretly were having my baby, i would probably run you down with my car to kill you and the baby.

Just sayin'

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Originally posted by Discrate
do you have no morals?
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If you were my gf and you secretly were having my baby, i would probably run you down with my car to kill you and the baby.

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errr... yeah... having morals ...

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misstam,

Discrate is right though, forget for a minute about your selfish act of wanting a baby (you tell it in the same way like you go out and buy that beautiful ring you saw, just for you, taking care of 'number one'), and think about the child who will not know its father. And if you do tell who it is, think about how he/she would feel knowing he/she was unwanted.

And what if the roles were reversed and someone is having a baby from you without your consent? How would you feel?

Having a child is not something you go and buy just for the sake of having it or for the sake of doing what you want. Aka: you do not do it to take 'revenge' because you were hurt before, or even as a tool to fix a relationship, or to feel 'better' like some valium pill.

If you do want to have a baby you need to talk about it with your partner, period.

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Originally posted by misstam
hello everyone! well where can i start...friday the 13th for me was indeed what the myth says it to be, nothing but bad luck! I am currently working a 9-5 job which i like but i feel bored and confused about whether i want to do something else, or just not work in general, lol...like that is possible! so basically, i have been absorbed with having a baby, my own baby, with someone i know and want to be with. Evidently, he doesnt have a clue that i want to have a baby and i'm sure if he knew, he would run for the hills, the sea and maybe the end of the world if he could find it (Boing ) so getting straight to the point...does one have a baby without him knowing, or slowly live my boring, meaningless life before i do something even more outrageously stupid?!

BTW i don't want any reasons about how unfair it is to put a man through this...bla bla bla...no one was saying it was unfair when i was cheated on and hurt by other men, so im doing what I want now...not anyone else!

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You should answer 2 questions only - do you want to have a baby and do you want to stay with your boyfriend?
And if all the answers are positive - you know what to do.

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Originally posted by CookieRevised
errr... yeah... having morals ...

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Beat me to it

Doesnt matter if you've been cheated on before. Yeah shit happens. Men did it, but not this man. you can't put everyone else's mistakes on his shoulders, you know? So if you're considering having a baby, go to a sperm bank and get pregnant...

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Originally posted by CookieRevised
And what if the roles were reversed and someone is having a baby from you without your consent? How would you feel?

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how on earth is that even possible? she's female, you know lol

In all seriousness: misstam, you need a psychologist And what cookie said

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Originally posted by Chrono

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Originally posted by CookieRevised
And what if the roles were reversed and someone is having a baby from you without your consent? How would you feel?

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how on earth is that even possible? she's female, you know lol

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How it is possible* doesn't matter, it is the principle I was talking about.

*though there are ways for that matter