I can set the klite.ico icon
[list=1][*]Go to the main Messenger window (contact list)[*]Click Plus! and go to Preferences[*]Go to the Boss Protection section[*]Click the computer icon[*]Click the Browse button (the three dots)[*]Browse to the klite.ico file and double click it[*]Click OK to close that dialog window[*]Click OK to close the Preferences[*]Enter Boss Protection mode and look at the icon[/list]
This should work