I am having the same problem with auto accept transfers...
My boyfriend and i have both set it at auto accept every transfer request from everyone
msn 7.5
Messenger Plus 3.63.0.148
windows xp
Sometimes if we are both actively typing and using msn the auto accept works fine, sometimes...
We both have it set to go away after 20 minutes, BUT the auto had always kicked it to online and accepted before...
and now it won't...and i dont get notification that there was any request and neither does he...
please help cuz i have reinstalled and installed a zillion times...and don't know what else to do...