Shoutbox

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Originally posted by DJKAL
i cant move on, that's wy im like i am now, some people can move on - others cant
i cant

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I mean, I'm no professional on this, but you are only 15... these things can take a lot of time. It doesn't mean you wont be able to move on, or at least have less focus on these issues later in your life. To be honest I don't see why there is any point in anybody giving in on anything...

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Originally posted by haydn

To be honest I don't see why there is any point in anybody giving in on anything...

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because some people, like me, have no-one really in their life. i only have 2 girls i've never met and will propbaly lose one of them soon. but i have no-one really and so i gave in, just like i  have given up on everyone and everything all my life

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Originally posted by DJKAL
just like i  have given up on everyone and everything all my life

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One thing I have learnt is too never give up... And there is always someone there for you. You may doubt it, but there will be someone who understands...

And yeah... you can get over past experiences, it might take time, but you can. My original post in this thread is old, and yeah, basically I'm healing over that. There is another problem I have atm, but I'm not willing to talk about that... But anyway, point is, you can get over everything if you don't dwell on it for too long.

Well you may of read socialising this way is a good thing. It lets you express your true feeling without and repercustions as a person can we living 1000's of miles away.

All familes have problems. Some are worse than others i do not really have that great amount of them i consider myself luckly *tocuh wood*

A thing that surrounds my family alot is death, alot of people seem to die from this that or another, friends etc due to soe illness or accident or age.

One key moment was something in july last year that shook my family alot.

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Originally posted by DJKAL
i cant move on

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Of course you can. I thought when i was 6 that id never move on from my parents divorce, then the same at 8 when my grandads' died, then at 14 when i was bullied, life DOES go on. As much as you think you wont get over it, you will. TRUST me

get a prescription for some depression medicine...then again I dont think it helped my sister that much when she was super depressed when i was little but i dont remember.

get something to hit on and hit it as hard as you can. avoid music, family photos, whatever at all costs. smile to people...

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Originally posted by [MR
]get a prescription for some depression medicine...then again I dont think it helped my sister that much when she was super depressed when i was little but i dont remember.

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That would probably get you addicted to the medication, you'd probably end up having to go to rehab or at least having an OD =P.

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Originally posted by Millenium_edition
avoid music

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no can do! music is my LIFE {that and MSN}

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Originally posted by Millenium_edition
smile at people

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but but but .. youd look weird if you walked around smiling here because people just dont do it anymore

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Originally posted by DJKAL
no can do! music is my LIFE {that and MSN}

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try to avoid music and see what happens

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Originally posted by DJKAL
but but but .. youd look weird if you walked around smiling here because people just dont do it anymore

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it will give you a positive look at life, who cares if you look weird it'd be more concerning if you are just a normal person in society, with nothing "weird" or "special"