Hey,
Thanks for trying to help!
I was set on automatic sign in with the remember my password option, but in all honesty, I really feel that he wouldn't have gone onto my MSN with me so close by. Plus, he's not that conniving or stupid - whatever you wanna call it (at least I hope not). And regarding the "view contacts by", I did have it set to display name instead of email (display names are much more amusing). Any other ideas?
Also, I never downloaded Messenger Plus...so I'm still confused about the displayed names changing to email addresses....