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* Voldemort thinks you should decide by yourself, and agrees with Cookie and Fanta.
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Well as you can see, it's quite clear when I reply directly to you :)

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if you like her, date her...
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04-27-2006 11:17 PM
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errrrrr..
"not a usual type of reaction you would expect from a girl."??

tbh... that's the most rediculus "test" I've heared to 'size up' a girl or to see if they are greedy... of course they are going to stare at it! Everybody would...

Most of the people (not only the girls) would simply think "what a show-off, careless with money, etc..."

Unless you're happy with the stupid naieve blond one who thinks "wow he's loaded I'll jump right at him"

Either your date thinks:
"he has lot a of money, but is a big show-off and careless"
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"he pretends (aka lying) to be loaded and is trying to impress me with money"

I dunno which one is worse, but they both say negative stuff about you and your "technique" and don't tell a thing about a girl being greedy or not.


...sorry

First of all, I don't do it on every date.
Second, as I mentioned earlier, I take out most of the things I have in my pockets and put it on the side of the table because it makes me feel more comfortable. Girls usually do the same thing, they put their purse on the side of the table too. What's so unusual about this? By doing this, I don't want to show her that I'm rich and loaded, it's just a typical pattren most people do when they go to restaurants, they put stuff on the side of the table.
Ofcourse a girl is gonna look on my stuff, but sometimes they make it so obvious and their eyes become gready. That's usually enough for me to realize what she really wants from me. And no, Im not a type of guy who is gonna buy a chick gifts and give money to sleep with her.

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yeah but i was at a restraunt once and then guy beside me has something similar to you, he had a think wallet out on the table, so when he paid in cash tehy waiters too a 35% on the bill, and when he only left a 10%, they took there tip out first then said he didn't pay enough for his dinner and wouldn't let him leave

Well shit happens, but never happened to me :)
I donno about your country, but here it's usually 15%, but the guy gave only 10%. That's probably the reason they didn't let him go because he didnt pay the other 5% or maybe they wanted to rip him off, who knows..
Well in my case, I already know places I go and I never had similar problems. In case I will, I wont be talking with a waiter, I'll ask manager to come over and discuss the problem with him. Of course I will point out that it's their inconvinience and I will never come to their restaurent anymore. The manager will be appologetic and my girl will only like me more because I know how to handle situations. See, I will only enjoy the outcome without a penny lost.

I saw one trick in some TV show, can't remeber which one, but it went like this. A guy went for a date with his girl in some restaurent. Once he saw the waiter, he took out 10 one dollar bills (that's 10$ in total) and put them on the table and said: " Everytime you'll do something I don't like I'll take out few bucks, but everytime You do something I like I will add" So the waiter tried his best to please them and still he ended up with about 7$ tips :P
In case you're wondering what type of things a waiter can do you don't like is bringing you a dirty glass, or it takes him long time to bring you smth you ordered etc etc.. stuff like that

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That's probably the reason they didn't let him go because he didnt pay the other 5%
bull shit, :P i'll tip what ever i want:P and they can't stop me for that:P
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If you know she's two-faced beforehand... it's not gonna work out... been there.. done that... keep looking
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If you know she's two-faced beforehand... it's not gonna work out... been there.. done that... keep looking

Screw that if she's hot do as I said before and just go her till u find a girl u want...

Seems to work......
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looks do not build relationships
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First of all, I don't do it on every date.
Second, as I mentioned earlier, I take out most of the things I have in my pockets and put it on the side of the table because it makes me feel more comfortable. Girls usually do the same thing, they put their purse on the side of the table too. What's so unusual about this?
I'm not talking about putting your cellphone or keys on the side of the table or whatever, but about:
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One of the technique I use, I get around 500-1000$ form ATM b4 I go to a date, and put my money (with a money clip) on the side of the table along with my cell phone. So as we eat, I observe how many time she is looking on the money........
I never ever seen anybody in their right mind putting that amount of money in plain sight on a table...

There is a major difference between putting your cellphone, keys and/or purse on a table and putting a big pile of loose money on a table... Of course people are going to wonder about the money when they see it...

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I never ever seen anybody in their right mind putting that amount of money in plain sight on a table...

There is a major difference between putting your cellphone, keys and/or purse on a table and putting a big pile of loose money on a table... Of course people are going to wonder about that when they see it...

Ive never seen anyone in thier right mind even carrying that amount of money without a purpose.. I dont think you really do that s7a5..
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