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Love~ :] by Titty on 08-12-2004 at 06:49 PM

Do you think you could 'fall in love' over the internet?
Why, and why not?

You could speak about, your strong attatchments, or whatever.


I'm just bored, maybe you are too :]


RE: Love~ :] by KeyStorm on 08-12-2004 at 06:55 PM

Oh, sure you can. I'm a proof for it. ;)


RE: Love~ :] by Titty on 08-12-2004 at 06:56 PM

Really? What's your story.


I have a story too. ^_______^


RE: Love~ :] by Maniac on 08-12-2004 at 06:59 PM

I dont think u can but it can help, it can lead u to, but i believe that u actually have to know/see the person cause some things u just cant judge through the net


RE: Love~ :] by Stigmata on 08-12-2004 at 07:00 PM

well i guess its possible... as long as there isnt a huge age difference and he only wants you teeniesex :)



RE: Love~ :] by Titty on 08-12-2004 at 07:00 PM

Yeah, you can maintain a relationship using internet..

Like how the phone and mail work. Hehe..

Hm, but yeah, you end up meeting the person.


RE: Love~ :] by KeyStorm on 08-12-2004 at 07:07 PM

Well, I got to know a girl that lives like 700mi/1000km away from Barcelona. We started chatting frequently, knowing more and more from each other until we discovered that we matched. We started then to call each other more. And I was about to book a flight to see her until she told me she was cheating and... (u), you know...

Well, Ningc_Maniac, I'm sure it's not the same for everyone. but I didn't believe in it until it happened and I lived through it.

I can tell it was much more real than many people may think ;) (the pain was also very persistant)

Through the net you can judge other factors that are at least equally important that the ones you get from meeting someone in the real world. but, it's true that there's always something missing... (ahum, you know what I mean... ;)). but for the rest, there isn't a really big difference.

Edit: I always like to compare it with as if you where separated of that person by a glass, you can never touch the other, but the feeling is the same.


RE: Love~ :] by Titty on 08-12-2004 at 07:12 PM

Aw. Touching story. :\
I thought it'd be a more optimistic one, where you're married to her
or something like that.


Oh, and I'm glad you brought that up.  I too believe it depends on
the two persons.  Everyone's opinions and lifestyles are different.

Haha, and yes, there are some things that would require physical
company of each other, like a hug or kiss. 

Oh, I also want to say that sometimes you find a strong attatchment
to the person online that you cant have with anyone else in real life...
And the only flaw about them is their location/distance.. :(

And I like your comparison..


RE: Love~ :] by user27089 on 08-12-2004 at 07:14 PM

Yes you can fall in love over the internet, I fear that I have, but i'm mentioning no names, that person knows who it is.


RE: Love~ :] by Stigmata on 08-12-2004 at 08:03 PM

quote:
Originally posted by traxor
Yes you can fall in love over the internet, I fear that I have, but i'm mentioning no names, that person knows who it is.


* Stigmata thinks he knows...giggles :)
RE: Love~ :] by KeyStorm on 08-12-2004 at 08:13 PM

quote:
Originally posted by Titty
Oh, I also want to say that sometimes you find a strong attatchmentto the person online that you cant have with anyone else in real life...
And the only flaw about them is their location/distance..
So true... :-/

Well, we still chat some times, so we keep on being 'friends' (you know how hard it is to remain friends after such things), but well. We agreed to meet someday, anyway. So one can never know what will happen :rolleyes:.
:P
RE: Love~ :] by marissa on 08-12-2004 at 08:22 PM

I've had two.
you learn a whole bunch about the person-its fun-you hurt a whole bunch about not being able to be with, near them-you break up for some stupid reason...like really really stupid.

I dont think id recommend it for someone though, just like in most relationships, you get hurt in the end, but you've got the two pains mixed in, the loss of the person and the pain that you never got to hold them close and such.

sorry if i sound corny.
carry on:p


RE: Love~ :] by MC Inferno on 08-12-2004 at 08:23 PM

quote:
Originally posted by marissa
I've had two.
you learn a whole bunch about the person-its fun-you hurt a whole bunch about not being able to be with, near them-you break up for some stupid reason...like really really stupid.

I dont think id recommend it for someone though, just like in most relationships, you get hurt in the end, but you've got the two pains mixed in, the loss of the person and the pain that you never got to hold them close and such.

sorry if i sound corny.
carry on:p

Sweetest thing I've ever heard...... my heart's melted.... :P
RE: Love~ :] by jren207 on 08-12-2004 at 08:31 PM

Maby,.... but you can't see whos on the other computer... :P

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RE: Love~ :] by user27089 on 08-12-2004 at 08:40 PM

quote:
Originally posted by jren207
Maby,.... but you can't see whos on the other computer... :P

[Image: attachment.php?pid=290837]

Not entirely correct, if both of the users have a webcam, then this is different isn't it. Through my life, i've came to one conclusion, it is harder to fall out of love then it is to fall out of it.
:(, oh and thanks to stigmatas effort she now knows :dodgy:

RE: Love~ :] by jren207 on 08-12-2004 at 08:43 PM

I mean you can't always see the person. (If they don't have a webcam).

I have found love and lost it before... but i'll live. :banana:


RE: Love~ :] by RebelSean on 08-12-2004 at 08:45 PM

Omfg

:dodgy: pic


RE: Love~ :] by jren207 on 08-12-2004 at 08:48 PM

hehehe... :P

btw... it's not me!!!


RE: Love~ :] by Titty on 08-12-2004 at 08:50 PM

My relationship works, it's sort of like a long distance
relationship.

It's not like I'm never seeing the person. I just dont see the person as often, but I have seen my person before and we spent a lot of time together.

I'm sure I'm not the only one, I know a lot of people who have
long distance relationships.


RE: Love~ :] by R1tjuh on 08-12-2004 at 09:31 PM

hehe my relation started on msn :D but I was lucky she doesnt live that far away, 20min with my bike...

shes my girlfriend now for 4 months :D


RE: Love~ :] by Twan on 08-12-2004 at 10:23 PM

I had it 1 time..  we did sms a lot and we got a date, we went to lord of the rings 3 (A) ... and we kissed that some  day but it was the first and last time we saw each other we just didn't connect (i thought we did but she didn't :( ) but  for me it is that you can like someone on the internet but you can only love in real life... :)

and for the persons with longs distance relations... don't you miss ech other to much and don't you grow away from each other.. ??   you need to see the one you love to stay in love or am I wrong... ???


RE: Love~ :] by R1tjuh on 08-12-2004 at 10:33 PM

I liked and loved my gf on the internet, but now I know her I love her even more

Offtopic:
http://www.xs4all.nl/~lokum/pics/Rianne.jpg


RE: Love~ :] by Titty on 08-12-2004 at 10:53 PM

Aww ^_________________________^

So sweet.  You guys are lucky it's only 20 minutes.
Mine is far, but we got to spend like 2-3 weeks together.


RE: Love~ :] by user27089 on 08-12-2004 at 11:00 PM

So lucky that mine isn't like 2000 miles away :dodgy: i think i definitely do ;)


RE: Love~ :] by Chrono on 08-12-2004 at 11:09 PM

quote:
Originally posted by Titty
Do you think you could 'fall in love' over the internet?
Why, and why not?
yes. why?
quote:
Originally posted by KeyStorm
I'm a proof for it. 
me too :P
quote:
Originally posted by KeyStorm
I didn't believe in it until it happened and I lived through it.
Same :p
quote:
Originally posted by Titty
I thought it'd be a more optimistic
Mine isnt more optimistic, hence im not telling names nor the story neither ( :dodgy: )
RE: Love~ :] by marissa on 08-13-2004 at 12:28 AM

quote:
Originally posted by traxor
Yes you can fall in love over the internet, I fear that I have, but i'm mentioning no names, that person knows who it is.



I know i know:D :D:D (l)
RE: Love~ :] by Titty on 08-13-2004 at 12:30 AM

:o!


[Image: tn_DSC02590.JPG]
Theres a thumbnail of a picture of me and my boyfriend that I met off
the internet.


RE: Love~ :] by Ice Queen on 08-13-2004 at 05:56 PM

well u can meet guys on the internet n it can be a good relationship

[Image: tn_DSC02590.JPG]
u guys look so cute together


RE: Love~ :] by user27089 on 08-13-2004 at 05:57 PM

quote:
Originally posted by Titty
I know i know

:| aww
RE: Love~ :] by Titty on 08-13-2004 at 07:10 PM

Whoa, I wondered why it said quoted by Titty.

Marissa said that, lol.



Oh and Ice Queen, thanks. :] But thats a bad picture of us.
We didn't take that many that came out good.


RE: Love~ :] by user27089 on 08-13-2004 at 07:11 PM

quote:
Originally posted by marissa
quote:
Originally posted by traxor
Yes you can fall in love over the internet, I fear that I have, but i'm mentioning no names, that person knows who it is.



I know i know:D :D:D (l)
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