i was wondering if there was a plugin or something out there that can add.....or rename?....a status
cuz i never use On the phone
id like to change for something like
"dont talk to me"
and maybe change the little icon too
is that possible?

you can make custom a status by going away and putting info into the box  that pops up

However, you won't be able to change the icon.

I think the best combination would be 'Busy', with status tag 'Don't Talk To Me'. Your choice of auto-responder

If you dont want people to talk to you, either block them or appear offline

Or block them and use http://www.stuffplug.com if you need to chat

A new status definitely should be "out for dinner"